People express themselves in many ways.

And for a growing number of people, the need for some sort of public expression of thoughts, feelings, style or creative expression is filled by blogging. Expressing your thoughts in written words, however, is not as simple a task as it may seem to be; many people, in fact, find that it can take hours to accurately transfer what seem to be the most simple thoughts to the written word. The reason for this difficulty lies in the fact that thoughts and feelings do not require the organization or structure that is required by the written expression of those thoughts and feelings.

Are you ever conflicted about how to express yourself on your blog?

Blogging can be intimidating because it does leave you vulnerable to others’ judgments. However, the positive news is that you get to choose what you reveal and how you present yourself on your blog.

Picture these three scenarios:

1. You are at a costume party in a room full of strangers. You are dressed as an 18th Century lady; you’ve studied the mannerisms, have affected the perfect accent and you charm every party-goer you meet. Beneath the facade, outside the realm of this party you may be a banker, a secretary or an unemployed poet, but here and now you are Madame Devereux, the elegant lady who speaks with grace and comports herself with the utmost decorum.

2. You are at work where you are always the no-nonsense professional, respected by peers and underlings and depended upon by your manager to perform your tasks with skill, technical proficiency and a pleasant demeanor — an expectation that is hardly ever unmet.

3. You are at an informal get together with family, close friends and neighbors; you talk about sports, literature and fashion with people who know you and who understand your opinions, your quirks and your few flaws — there is no facade, no pretense, you are unabashedly you!

These scenarios that represent three versions of you in the real world are also three (of many) approaches you can take to presenting yourself to your readers in the virtual world, through your blog:

• as a character of your creation;
• as the professional at whatever you do;
• as the real, unadulterated you, complete with flaws.

Your blog and your blogger persona are your creations and are limited only by your choices. No matter how you choose to portray yourself, keep in mind that whatever it is you write, in whatever form, even if it is spoof or satire, it will be considered by your readers as an expression of your true feelings.

You can take the following steps to make it easier to express yourself in writing.

Improve Your Grammar

As a rule you should always write to your audience — they are the ones who need to understand you. Perfection may be necessary only when you are writing for an audience of scholars and grammarians who require it, but, regardless of your audience, the better your grammar, the better you will be understood, and the easier it will be for you to transfer your thoughts to paper.

Don’t think that improving your grammar means you have to sign up for an English course at your community college or spend a lot of money for a handbook of English grammar and composition. There are literally hundreds of English grammar guides available online, and very reasonably priced English grammar guides are available in bookstores. Good grammar is a tool you will never regret learning to use; always work to improve your mastery of the English language.

Improve Your Vocabulary

Finding the right words to express your thoughts is much easier when you have more words in your armory to choose from. You may be tempted to learn some suitably obscure words to impress your readership, but too much of that will only confuse them and turn them away from your writing. Research has shown that the average adult in the U.S. reads at an eighth-grade level so arming yourself with a recondite vocabulary will not be helpful (nor was that reference to a ‘recondite vocabulary’ unless you knew that recondite means “difficult to understand”). Arm yourself, instead, with a good dictionary/thesaurus.

Write Often

Practice makes perfect … or, to be honest, it at least helps you approach perfection. Try to make a meaningful entry in your blog every day. That may not always be possible, but do try! Two of the wonderful things about blogging are its flexibility and availability — barring computer problems, your blog will always be there when you need it, and you’ll find that the more you write, the easier it will be to write. Keep in mind, however, that even a professional writer who writes for hours every day is seldom completely satisfied that the words that came out adequately express the thought that went in, so don’t allow yourself to get too frustrated if your efforts don’t meet your expectations. Instead, take a short break and then try again.

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